6 Ways to Make your Guy Love you Forever

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Found this while roaming on the net. It’s interesting and full of useful information that every girl should embrace it as a good knowledge. You may be surprised at the things guys really can’t resist about women, and some of them are the very qualities women fear will drive men away-from letting a curse word loose to leaving all kinds of makeup near his bathroom sink. Here’s why these habits and others actually win a man over.

1. He loves that you indulge at dinnertime.
Guys love girls who love to eat-not girls who say they aren’t hungry and then pick at their date’s food all night. Paul, 30, who lives in Boston, thinks that food may be the reason he fell in love with his fianc‚e: When we first started dating, I thought it might be awkward if I wanted greasy food like wings-I figured she’d think it was fattening or unhealthy. Women I’d dated in the past only wanted to go out for salad or sushi. But she was enthusiastic about eating all kinds of things with me. I loved that easygoing attitude of hers. Aside from showing that you’re not high-maintenance or neurotic about your weight, that kind of unabashed enthusiasm also tends to translate into other areas-including the bedroom. A woman with a healthy appetite for food tends to have a healthy appetite on all levels, and sex is absolutely a part of that, explains Barton Goldsmith, Ph.D., author of Emotional Fitness for Couples: 10 Minutes a Day to a Better Relationship.


2. He loves your occasional obscenities.
You may worry that it’s not ladylike, but occasionally letting a curse escape your lips at an unexpected moment can be a major turn-on. Hearing a woman use profanity out of context gives a guy a shock of sexual adrenaline, explains Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman and co-host of Discovery Health’s Love on the Rocks. Men like women who can be tough and assertive, and as long as she doesn’t take the talk too far, it’s a positive thing.

3. He loves that you aren’t a neat freak.
Believe it or not, guys find the proliferation of hair products, accessories and unidentified stuff strewn about your apartment oddly sexy. I love that my wife makes a bigger mess than I do, says Ziad, 31, of Durham, NC. When she cooks, food ends up all over the place. It shows that she’s carefree, and it reminds me to enjoy the moment rather than worrying about the consequences. This laid-back mind-set also carries over into your weekend wardrobe. Guys love a woman who’s not trying too hard, explains Dr. Kerner. Most men think a pair of boxer shorts and a ratty old T-shirt around the house is your sexiest look. So don’t spend hours choosing the perfect date-night outfit or getting your place in House Beautiful-shape, because men love you just as you are-in your comfortable, slightly sloppy glory.

4. He loves your extra padding.
Sure, you’ve heard that men love women with curves, but how about those extra pounds you’ve been trying to sweat off at the gym? There’s a good chance that your guy loves them, too. Just ask 26-year-old Nick: My girlfriend exercises regularly, but I think the little pudginess in her thighs is sexy because it shows she’s not perfect. Sure, your extra padding may make men feel a little better about their own beer bellies, but there’s also a biological reason why men like this. Psychologists at the University of TX determined that men were most attracted to women with hourglass figures – specifically, women whose waists were 60 to 80 percent smaller than their hips – regardless of their weight. They theorize that men unconsciously seek this body type because it signals that a woman is able to procreate.


5. He’s fascinated by your knowledge of medieval tapestries.
Or whatever it is that gets you all hot and bothered-whether or not he shares the same interests. It’s not about knowing facts-it’s about being passionate about something, says romance columnist Mira Kirshenbaum, author of The Weekend Marriage. These are things that are important to her, not just stuff meant to impress a guy. This can be passion for a subject as seemingly obscure as agricultural practices of the Mayans or as popular as Spanish as a second language. He may not quite get it and he may not want to have all-night discussions about it, but he definitely appreciates the fact that you’re a smart, interesting woman who thinks for herself and doesn’t mold her interests to match those of her man. Your interests also fuel what Kerner calls the process of self-expansion. The more you expand as a person, he explains, the more the relationship expands.

6. He loves a good head rub from you.
Don’t get me wrong-men love it when you grope their erogenous zones. But that’s not the only type of touch they crave. Adam, 28, of Roanoke, VA, confesses: I love how my wife rubs my head at night. Sweet, yes, but it also feels oh-so-good: Home to hundreds of nerve endings, the scalp is an often-neglected zone. And light touches anywhere can achieve a similar effect, since they cause his body to produce vasopressin, a feel-good relaxation hormone that also promotes bonding. Another positive side effect? Initiating any kind of physical contact sends your man the message that you want him just as much as he wants you-and that you truly care about him.

Matt Schneiderman has written for Stuff, Cargo, and Sync magazines.

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    my “so called” boyfriend, said that we had to break up because he was going into the army. I’m 15 and hes 16-17. He broke up with me 4-5 weeks ago. and doesnt know when hes going. My mom saids you can only enlist or join the army when your 18. Even when were not dateing he still is hugging me and wants to be close like before, just not dateing; he saids we cant date. i dont know whats up with that. my mom thinks im getting my self into some trouble into the future with this. i honestly dont know what to think of this.

    • guest November 9, 2011, 1:20 am

      ive been treated this way by guys mannyy times before and ive learned from excperance that  if a guy wants to be with you and loves you verryyy much …then he will just be with you..(no matter what) and make it happen..if you think hes lieing about going into the army..then hes not the guy for you..you should be able to trust your man and he should still wanna be with you if he really likes or loves you…:) hes not even going into the army yet but still insists you hug and do physical things..sounds like hes trying to use you..ive been used by guys sooo much and you dont need a guy like that in your life..trust me..:)  guys play many head games and this sounds like a head game beacuse even people in the army have girlfriends :) you deserve better..find someone else who will apreciate you and be with you..hope that helps :)

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  • Mandapanda30 March 30, 2011, 6:43 am

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for only 2 months, and yes this is a short time but I have seriously without research done things of this nature just from knowing what guys like and I have never waited so long to hear these words before. I mean I can tell he somewhat does by the way we gaze into Eachothers eyes but do you think he’s scared to tell me how he feels

    • Ruhani Rabin March 30, 2011, 7:09 am

      Men often don’t say how they feels but it is pretty obvious the way they
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  • Gothicgirl75 February 13, 2011, 7:04 am

    My boyfriend lets his friend touch me, but then I let his friend feel me up one day and my boyfriend got mad and broke up with me. He wanted me back the next day and said he wasn’t thinking about what he was saying. I took him back and now we love each other more then ever. And in the past people tried to break us up, but that only brought us closer. So my point is to let problems like that bring you and your boyfriend or girlfriend bring you two closer.

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    I am 8 and there’s this guy that I really really love and he loves me back and I want him to ask me out again.

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      u ask him come one he’ll think your pretty cool for asking him out be laid back and be like oh hey wanna like go to like the movies or smthn your pick, and be all cool and hot! hope it helps!!

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    My friend doesn’t want us to go out, but I believe we should. He flirts with girls and. Talks to me only sometimes

    • jaybear November 9, 2011, 1:26 am

      its really bad when your friends and your bf dont get along..sometimes its cuz their jelous and dont want you to be happy..but other times its cuz there trying to protect you and they know the guys gonna hurt you or bad for you in the end..:) if he shows you all of his attention then he really loves you..if hes talking to you..then somone else comes up and he talkes to them..thats ok but if he leaves you and walks away or if he completely ignores you than thats realllyyyy bad and he doesnt care about you..sorry..:( but sometimes guys are just shy so if he starts to spend time with you then he likes you alloottt!!! :) hope that helps

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    i feel that my boyfriend is not in love with me anymore because it takes a time for him to call me and i’m starting to feel he is cheating on me.

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      Hey nelly, I think I have a soution for you. Try flirting with other guys, just hug some random guy, when your bf is around and see his face expresstion. If he turns red, well, he still likes you! Good luck, I hope it works out for you!

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